Genuine Concern for Others

In Philippians 2:20-22, Timothy is singled out as being unique.  Paul states "I have no one else like him, who will show a genuine concern for your welfare.  For everyone looks out for their own interests.  Not those of Jesus Christ."  Of all the people surrounding Paul throughout his ministry, he recognizes genuine concern as a rare trait possessed only by Timothy.  

Interesting.  Wouldn't most of us say that concern for the welfare of others is sort of "entry-level Christianity?"

Unfortunately, nothing has changed today.  Whether at a business function, a family gathering, or a church social event, the truth is that most of us remain primarily focused on our own needs or agendas.  We interact with others and show appropriate amusement, dismay or concern, while thinking about the next comment we will add or story we will tell.  We check out what is happening around us while half-listening, rather than focusing completely on what the other person is saying. We promise to get together again in the future, and then we go on about our lives. 

How rare a gift is the conversation with another who demonstrates complete focus on what we have to say.  No rush to tell a similar story, or to say, "Oh, that's nothing.  Let me tell you what happened to me!"  Rather, a conversation that remains focused on you; where more details are sought, genuine interest is demonstrated and you are encouraged to talk at length.

Is it any wonder, then, that we struggle to embrace the image of God loving us enough to stop and say "I have nothing else to do, nowhere I'd rather be, I'm fully devoted to being with you?"  If we can't even hold the interest of other humans, how is it possible that God would have any desire to spend time with us?  Particularly the God who knows the whole, ugly truth about who we are?  Why on earth would he pay attention to anything we have to say, let alone turn to us in joyful anticipation of spending time together?

Do you want to be a missionary of God to those around you?  Slow down and show complete focus and interest on what others desire to tell you.  Ask questions, encourage them to elaborate and ask for updates as time passes.  As Paul noted, such genuine concern, while seemingly normal, is actually quite rare.  

Focused attention will surprise people.  It will make them wonder.  And ask questions.  And provide you with an opening to talk about the Source of genuine concern.

As others realize the value you place on these conversations and the relationship you're building with them, they may begin to believe that they might just possibly be valued by God as well.  And that is a very big deal.